Not your average marketing consultant

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MARKETING AS A FORM OF COMMUNITY CARE, CULTURAL ACCOUNTABILITY, + ANTI-OPPRESSION WORK.

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I'M A SPEAKER, FACILITATOR, AND CONSULTANT WITH TWO DECADES OF MARKETING AND BUSINESS EXPERIENCE.

I work with values-driven entrepreneurs and creatives growing their work one relationship at a time—and with teams and organizations ready to bring their equity commitments into practice, not just policy.

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WORK WITH ME

Many people come to this work with a tangle of questions: about visibility, sustainability, messaging, pricing, identity, audience, capacity, or how to keep showing up when the world feels heavy.

You don’t have to be clear to get support. That’s part of where I fit in.

CONSCIOUS MARKETING STRATEGY

Messaging, offers, and a visibility plan you can sustain.

BUSINESS MENTORSHIP

Pricing, capacity, and offer ecosystems for small teams.

ANTI-OPPRESSION CONSULTING

Queer and trans inclusion, from policy into daily practice.

WORKSHOPS + TRAININGS

Speaking engagements and educational sessions built for your room.

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MOST PEOPLE START HERE

THE GET IT DONE 90

A 90-minute strategy session on whatever is most alive in your business right now. You leave with a custom workbook built for your situation within three business days, plus the full recording.

Payment plans always available

$575

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Join the Conscious Marketing Club — free, second Friday monthly

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Tristan is always available with welcoming and comprehensive information and support for those of us still finding our way into accessibility and equity.

JIVANA HEYMAN
Accessible Yoga

Tristan has supported me in propelling my work further than I could have on my own.

MICHELLE CASSANDRA JOHNSON
author, activist, & facilitator

I am often hungering for the now what part of reflection and I had that in my work with Tristan. Finally!

KELLY SHEARD
WOMEN’S WAY, Chief Strategy Officer

FOR TEAMS + ORGANIZATIONS

LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR TEAM

I support groups in navigating the relational, emotional, and power-based dynamics that can emerge in conversations about identity, equity, harm, and belonging.

This may include creating thoughtful group agreements, supporting conversations across lines of difference, tending defensiveness or conflict, helping teams distinguish intention from impact, and supporting leaders in responding to harm with more accountability and care.

WE ARE THE MESSAGE

Rethinking Visibility, Marketing, & Power in the Digital Age

Written for creatives, entrepreneurs, organizers, and values-driven leaders—an invitation to think more critically about how we show up online, and to practice visibility with care, accountability, and integrity.

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