Not your average marketing consultant.
Marketing as a form of community care, cultural accountability, and anti-oppression work.
I’m a nationally recognized speaker, facilitator, and consultant supporting individuals, teams, and organizations in growing their work with care.
With a foundation in intersectional, anti-oppression practice and a trauma-informed lens, I help people move from intention to action—through strategic consulting, equity-centered education, and transformative conversations that meet the moment.
Whether I’m facilitating a workshop, supporting leadership behind the scenes, or working with clients individually, my work centers relationship over performance, strategy with integrity, and values embodied—not just stated.
Coming March 2027 from North Atlantic Books
WE ARE THE MESSAGE
Practices for Embodied Visibility and Cultural Responsibility in an Online World
Written for creatives, entrepreneurs, organizers, and values-driven leaders, WE ARE THE MESSAGE invites us to think more critically about how we show up online—and to practice visibility with more care, accountability, and integrity.
Ways to Work Together
I support values-driven entrepreneurs, creatives, facilitators, organizations, and culture-shapers in growing their work with more clarity, care, and accountability.
My services include conscious marketing strategy, business and offer ecosystem support, queer and trans inclusion consulting, and custom workshops or trainings.
❋ CONSCIOUS MARKETING STRATEGY
❋ BUSINESS MENTORSHIP
❋ EQUITY-INCLUSION CONSULTING
❋ WORKSHOPS, SPEAKING, + CUSTOM TRAININGS
→ NOT SURE WHERE TO BEGIN?
You don’t need to have it all figured out before reaching out.
Many people come to this work with a tangle of questions: about visibility, sustainability, messaging, pricing, identity, audience, capacity, or how to keep showing up when the world feels heavy. You don’t have to be clear to get support. That’s part of where I fit in.
Tristan is always available with welcoming and comprehensive information and support for those of us still finding our way into accessibility and equity.
JIVANA HEYMAN
author, teacher & founder: Accessible Yoga
Tristan has supported me in propelling my work further than I could have on my own.
MICHELLE CASSANDRA JOHNSON
author, activist, & facilitator
Tristan reminds me that my humanity is what drives the work and that I can have a viable business, rooted in compassion, thoughtfulness and authenticity.
ILYA PARKER
founder: Decolonizing Fitness
If you have a chance to work with Tristan and you are open to learning new things, definitely do!
NAFTALI KING
spiritual advisor & accessible yoga teacher
There are truly not enough words to describe how much working with Tristan has changed the way I approach being a business person. I’m so grateful for what they do, and for who they are in the world.
ALEX IANTAFFI
author, speaker, therapist, & educator
Ready to bring your vision to life? Contact me.
Please know that it can sometimes take me five days to respond to email inquiries. I appreciate your patience and I’ll look forward to connecting with you.
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Long-form writing reframing how we show up to grow our work and speak into the world.
Visibility is Not Neutral explores the intersection of marketing, identity, and justice. It’s a newsletter for those of us who understand that we cannot separate the personal from the political—or the professional. Here, I write about how we communicate our work, how we hold and use power, and how we can shift our business practices away from extraction and toward relationship, solidarity, and care.
